Many of you are like me and you work from your device. Studies show being hyper-connected to your phone/tablet was found to be correlated with reduced levels of relationship satisfaction, falling out of love, an increased tendency to be less satisfied with life overall, and higher depression rates. Detaching yourself from your phone and truly unplugging when you are with your loved ones will improve your relationship and sex life — enabling you to cultivate deeper connections and maintain them. So how do you have a healthy, balanced and loving relationship in a digital world full of noise and distraction? Strategically plan “device-free time” with each other. Disconnecting digitally will help you connect personally with each other which in return your sex life will improve. Check the status of your relationship rather than the status of your social media feed.
How to Squirt: Instructions for your partner
STEP 1: Maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy (like you’re going up behind her clit.) You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin – rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. You’ve found it, that’s the G-SPOT!!!!!
STEP 2: As you start to press/pull your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you’re doing it right, and she’s comfortable with it, you’ll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over.
STEP 3: When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It’s just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but make sure she stays relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers) and that you KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that’s when you have to start doing it harder because orgasm is around the corner.
10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON’T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She’ll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you’re prepared. https://theppgstore.com/product/vibro-fingers/
The summertime is near and I know everyone is excited about taking a vacation. Did you know that more than 50 percent of people say they are more likely to be intimate with their significant other while on vacation than they are at home? And studies have shown that a change in scenery could provide a boost to your sex drive. Let me give you some traveling tips.
Do your research. It is legal to have sex toys in the United States. Unfortunately, some countries, like India and the United Arab Emirates (Dubai), have restrictions on sex toys. Do your research ahead of time to avoid the risk of having your vibrator confiscated. The TSA also has a handy “Can I Bring?” search tool on its website. Enter the name of the product you’re planning to bring, such as “vibrator” or “lube,” and you’ll quickly be able to see if the item is permitted and any restrictions that might apply.
Remove all Batteries….Having your vibrator accidentally start buzzing as you go through airport security will certainly draw unwanted attention. If you have a battery-operated toy, simply remove the batteries. If you have a rechargeable vibrator, you may want to run the charge out before you pack it. This might mean using it every night for a week before your trip, but who’s complaining about that?
Some of the more hi-tech toys have a travel lock on them, please make sure you remember to change the setting to a travel lock before packing.
Smaller is better… Instead, stick with a petite but powerful toy that can easily be tucked away in an inner suitcase pocket. Put your vibrator in a clear plastic bag. This way, if TSA screeners open your bag, they’ll be able to see what it is without having their hands all over it. You don’t want them touching your toy and I’m pretty sure they will appreciate it being in a bag. If you plan to bring some lube or toy cleaner to go along with your vibrator, it shouldn’t be an issue—so long as you follow the TSA’s restrictions for liquids. Keep it up to 3 ounces or less. Size does matter. Remember that the TSA restricts hand tools longer than 7 inches in length in carry-on baggage, so if you a have a longer toy, it might fall into the category of “baton-like” or “club-like” items that have to be checked.
Put them in your checked luggage and not your carry on.. This is your best option.
By ShaRonda Parker
When your man’s dick is hard it’s not flexible and sitting on it wrongly and pressing it down with all your body weight might result in much strain and pain. Make sure to find his natural angle and put your pelvis in a position you and the guy are both comfortable in. Every guy has a different angle, so don’t assume you’ll be able to climb on top and start riding him just like that.
Do what feels good to you. Most men have no problem with laying back and letting the woman take control. You have to decide if you are gonna Ride on your knees, on your feet, or with your legs on his shoulders, or will your legs be spreader open wide. Will you be in reverse..?…
When you are on top you are more likely to have an orgasm because you are getting direct stimulation to the clitoris, some men even hit the g spot. Not all men know to use their hands so make him grab your ass and grind against you from below. It’s basically like killing two birds with one stone, and even though your man might think you are selfish and feel tired when doing it for the first time, he will appreciate it later on.
Confidence brings motivation, and you can’t get tired if you believe in yourself. Most men want to see this. There is nothing that turns on a guy than a woman who is confident. If you are confident, you will just show your man that you want it, which will turn him on even more.
Put some music on. Riding is all about rhythm and moving your hips. The rhythm of your music can be influential on the way you are riding your man. Get yourself some music CDs, exceptionally slow jams like Soul, R&B or Blues and press play before you jump on top of him. Guys will prefer you put some music that is also good for them so don’t put on breakup music it will kill the mood.
Tip: The shallow Thrust
The outer third of a woman’s vagina is the most sensitive. The G-spot is hanging out just two-inches inside the vagina. He should introduce his penis to it. Many men find that they too enjoy shallow thrusting since it stimulates the head of the penis, the most sensitive part. Just the tip: He should alternate between shallow thrusts and deep thrusts, but stay mostly in the shallow end.
For more pleasurable sex, try making circular movements with your hips while you’re on top. This is a tip for both men and women. Circular motion is good for the clitoris, and trust me you want to stimulate the clitoris.
Tip: Make it Bite
The PC muscles are the miracle muscles that prevent you from peeing in your pants and make you better in bed. Exercise your PC muscles by doing Kegels to last longer.
Whenever you’re moving those hips around, it’s important to pace yourself and get the timing right. Men, relax your PC muscles when your hips meet your partner’s hips and squeeze them when you move away. Remember to breathe with the flow of your Kegels, and download the app Kegel Camp to really work those Kegels every day. Word on the street is that Kegels give men stronger orgasms. Since I don’t have a penis I can’t attest to this, but I do know it gets tighter down there when women do their kegels. And you will definitely pull that nut out him.
Tip: Pay attention to his facial expressions
Whenever you’re moving those hips around, it’s important to pace yourself and get the timing right. You don’t have to be graceful, just start off slow and ramp up if your partner is feeling it. Pay attention to how they react to your moves and go with the flow. Find your groove whether you prefer shallow sex, screwing, or making slow and passionate love.