How To Travel With Sex Toys

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The summertime is near and I know everyone is excited about taking a vacation. Did you know that more than 50 percent of people say they are more likely to be intimate with their significant other while on vacation than they are at home? And studies have shown that a change in scenery could provide a boost to your sex drive. Let me give you some traveling tips. 

Do your research. It is legal to have sex toys in the United States. Unfortunately, some countries, like India and the United Arab Emirates (Dubai), have restrictions on sex toys. Do your research ahead of time to avoid the risk of having your vibrator confiscated. The TSA also has a handy “Can I Bring?” search tool on its website. Enter the name of the product you’re planning to bring, such as “vibrator” or “lube,” and you’ll quickly be able to see if the item is permitted and any restrictions that might apply.  

Remove all Batteries….Having your vibrator accidentally start buzzing as you go through airport security will certainly draw unwanted attention. If you have a battery-operated toy, simply remove the batteries. If you have a rechargeable vibrator, you may want to run the charge out before you pack it. This might mean using it every night for a week before your trip, but who’s complaining about that?
Some of the more hi-tech toys have a travel lock on them, please make sure you remember to change the setting to a travel lock before packing. 

Smaller is better… Instead, stick with a petite but powerful toy that can easily be tucked away in an inner suitcase pocket.  Put your vibrator in a clear plastic bag. This way, if TSA screeners open your bag, they’ll be able to see what it is without having their hands all over it. You don’t want them touching your toy and I’m pretty sure they will appreciate it being in a bag. If you plan to bring some lube or toy cleaner to go along with your vibrator, it shouldn’t be an issue—so long as you follow the TSA’s restrictions for liquids. Keep it up to 3 ounces or less. Size does matter. Remember that the TSA restricts hand tools longer than 7 inches in length in carry-on baggage, so if you a have a longer toy, it might fall into the category of “baton-like” or “club-like” items that have to be checked. 

Put them in your checked luggage and not your carry on.. This is your best option.

The Feminine Touch Wife School

Wife School

 

On New Year’s Eve, I was preparing for our family’s Annual Vision Board party and God himself spoke these words to me “Marriages will be restored”. I didn’t have a name for the school or anything all I had was the Word of God telling me what was needed in this season. I have been in the adult industry for over a decade,  and my inbox has always been a safe haven for married couples to express their grievances. Wives from all backgrounds come to me for wise counsel when the fairy tale starts to come to an end. What I realized over the years was that most of us have not properly been prepared for marriage. Outside of cooking, cleaning, and raising children we haven’t received any training. Most of us are experiencing what I like to call “on the job training”, some marriages can survive it but most can’t that’s why our divorce rates are so high.

 

What is the purpose of Wife School?

Marriage does not come with tools or instructions. It is the only thing you can get a license for with zero experience or training. Have you ever tried to build something that did not come with instructions? You start the building process, then you realized that you missed a piece here or there. At that point, nothing is secured. This curriculum was designed with the purpose of preparing the modern woman with the skills that she will need to be the feminine asset in her relationship inside and outside of the bedroom. Being a wife is much more than cooking, cleaning, and raising kids. I’m teaching wives how to speak the language of their husbands to get the best results.

 

Can you share a little about the curriculum?

As women, we have a list of characteristics that we would like to see in our men. Well, men have a list of characteristics that they would like to see in their women as well. All men need and want feminine assets inside and outside of the bedroom.

This curriculum is designed to teach women the characteristics of a feminine asset, how to draw her husband closer to her, and how to respond to issues in the marriage. Upon completion, she will not be an average wife, but an excellent wife (which is rare).

 

Tell us about how your class is taught?

Covid has been a blessing and a curse, all of our classes are virtual this year. Because the classes are virtual there have been so many pros. For example, ladies from all over the country can attend. I don’t have to worry about rental space and social distancing. The class is taught in the comfort of your home.

This six-hour course is broken up into 3 sessions. Each session is 2 hours. The total cost for the course is $500 ($100 Registration Fee will be deducted from the total cost) The balance is due prior to starting class. This will be an interactive virtual class.

 

How would you describe the ideal student?

My ideal student would be any woman who is serious about building a legacy. Most people think you have to be married when in all actuality I would much rather give you the blueprint prior to marriage. In all honesty, most of us have not been taught properly about being a helpmate. Most women think as long as they cook, clean, and have sex their husbands will be happy and that is so far from the truth. So again any woman who desires marriage, who is engaged, or who wants to see her marriage thrive should register for Wife School.

 

How do you think your own marriage has prepared you for wife school?

I often tell women I wish there was a Sharonda Parker that I could have talked to when I was a young wife. I have been married 22 years and we have seen our share of good days and bad days. I was not raised to be a wife, I was raised to be a mistress, and that is the truth. I went into marriage without understanding certain principles and I thought that love was enough. I went through what I call “on the job training” and lots of mistakes were made on both ends. I had never really seen a WIFE. Over the years I was graced to come in contact with lots of older wives who taught me so many valuable lessons. Young women today feel like certain principles are outdated, but the one thing that will not change is every man needs and wants a Feminine Asset.

 

Where can we find more information?

If you have any questions please email thefemininetouchwifeschool@gmail.com

 

The Feminine Touch Wife School

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The Feminine Touch Wife School

On New Year’s Eve, I was preparing for our family’s Annual Vision Board party and God himself spoke these words to me “Marriages will be restored”. I didn’t have a name for the school or anything all I had was the Word of God telling me what was needed in this season. I have been in the adult industry for over a decade,  and my inbox has always been a safe haven for married couples to express their grievances. Wives from all backgrounds come to me for wise counsel when the fairy tale starts to come to an end. What I realized over the years was that most of us have not properly been prepared for marriage. Outside of cooking, cleaning, and raising children we haven’t received any training. Most of us are experiencing what I like to call “on the job training”, some marriages can survive it but most can’t that’s why our divorce rates are so high.

 

What is the purpose of Wife School?

Marriage does not come with tools or instructions. It is the only thing you can get a license for with zero experience or training. Have you ever tried to build something that did not come with instructions? You start the building process, then you realized that you missed a piece here or there. At that point, nothing is secured. This curriculum was designed with the purpose of preparing the modern woman with the skills that she will need to be the feminine asset in her relationship inside and outside of the bedroom. Being a wife is much more than cooking, cleaning, and raising kids. I’m teaching wives how to speak the language of their husbands to get the best results.

 

Can you share a little about the curriculum?

As women, we have a list of characteristics that we would like to see in our men. Well, men have a list of characteristics that they would like to see in their women as well. All men need and want feminine assets inside and outside of the bedroom.

This curriculum is designed to teach women the characteristics of a feminine asset, how to draw their husband closer to her, and how to respond to issues in the marriage. Upon completion, she will not be an average wife, but an excellent wife (which is rare).

 

Tell us about how your class is taught?

Covid has been a blessing and a curse, all of our classes are virtual this year. Because the classes are virtual there have been so many pros. For example, ladies from all over the country can attend. I don’t have to worry about rental space and social distancing. The class is taught in the comfort of your home.

This six-hour course is broken up into 3 sessions. Each session is 2 hours. The total cost for the course is $500 ($100 Registration Fee will be deducted from the total cost) The balance is due prior to starting class. This will be an interactive virtual class.

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How would you describe the ideal student?

My ideal student would be any woman who is serious about building a legacy. Most people think you have to be married when in all actuality I would much rather give you the blueprint prior to marriage. In all honesty, most of us have not been taught properly about being a helpmate. Most women think as long as they cook, clean, and have sex their husbands will be happy and that is so far from the truth. So again any woman who desires marriage, who is engaged, or who wants to see her marriage thrive should register for Wife School.

 

How do you think your own marriage has prepared you for wife school?

I often tell women I wish there was a Sharonda Parker that I could have talked to when I was a young wife. I have been married 22 years and we have seen our share of good days and bad days. I was not raised to be a wife, I was raised to be a mistress, and that is the truth. I went into marriage without understanding certain principles and I thought that love was enough. I went through what I call “on the job training” and lots of mistakes were made on both ends. I had never really seen a WIFE. Over the years I was graced to come in contact with lots of older wives who taught me so many valuable lessons. Young women today feel like certain principles are outdated, but the one thing that will not change is every man needs and wants a Feminine Asset.

 

Where can we find more information? 

If you have any questions please email thefemininetouchwifeschool@gmail.com

 

Sex and Asthma

How to be great at sex

What should I do if I start having asthma symptoms during sex?

 

 

There are steps you can take to relieve your asthma symptoms during sex. It doesn’t have to completely kill the passion. That’s why it’s good to communicate with your sex partner about your health condition before hand.

 

Be honest and say you need to stop for a moment.  Use your reliever inhaler, It should be within arms reach at all times.  Switch positions.

 

Here are some positions to try:

Spoon sex:   Spooning works best for couples who intend to save up on their energy since it doesn’t involve a lot of work from both parties. It works best for both partners, irrespective of who is suffering from the problem. Because of the angle of penetration, it also facilitates easy G spot access.

 

 

Woman-on-top:   This works best if the one suffering from Asthma is the man. Since most of the labour-intensive moves are to be performed by the woman, the man will be able to conserve his energy and prevent wheezing episodes. Even reverse cow girl works best for the same reason.

 

 

Standing position:   Standing positions also works well for both the man and the woman suffering from Asthma . It facilitates less labour-intensive movements for both men and women.

 

 

Scissors:  Scissors or scissoring is an easy sex position, which is not only pleasurable but also easy on your lungs. It requires the two of you to lie down and entwine your legs in a “scissor” position. It works for both the man and the woman suffering from Asthma.

 

 

Let’s talk about the environment. We all want to set the mood every now and then with a change in scenery or candles and incense but this can also be a trigger for your asthma. Think twice before you consider outdoor sex, sometimes the air quality is not that great. We all love renting hotel rooms but make sure they are non smoking rooms. Lastly being surrounded by perfumed candles, a dusty floor, dust mites, or pets can all be triggers for your asthma as well.

 

 

When meeting new people it’s very important that you educate them about your asthma prior to having sex. Remember, your partner or date will  hopefully only want the best for you. Either pick a time away from the bedroom, like when you’re having dinner or in the car and spark up the conversation about your asthma.

 

 

Perhaps say:

“So, my asthma can sometimes be triggered by sex. I can manage it, I just wanted to let you
“I’m going to leave my inhaler by the bed in case I need it.”
“Hold on, let me just use my inhaler first, just in case.”
“Can we try this position instead? It feels more comfortable.”
Once you and your partner know what works best for you, having sex should be fine.